Monday, September 7, 2009

刺猬语录

刚刚看回以前的一个旧blog.发现自己慢慢的学会成长了

虽然有些改变可能会是不好的

但是至少我是明白了一些理由、原因而在慢慢的做改变

很多人在成长的过程中有不少的矛盾

像是:应该为环境而改变自己吗?

变得自私自利?人不为己天诛地灭?

不是的...

生活在社会不一定要把自己变得像魔鬼一样

处处想办法从别人身上得到利益

越是这样的世界,那就更应该保守自己真纯的心

让世界有增加一些美好的角落

有些人说我对他好,他却没有像我对他这般对我好

其实不是的

对别人真诚,是不会期待别人回报的

会说的人很多

但往往能够做到的又有几个?

之前的我对别人好

我不知自己是否真的有在期待着什么

我是这么想的:就算你没以同样的手法对我,那至少别伤害我吧?

但是偏偏,别人往往在一个不注意伤害了自己脆弱的心灵

不是人家不在乎你,而是你把别人看得太重

造成往往期待着对方会以心比心的方式来对待你

有时就是那么纯的一颗心

却还是会被伤害

他们不是坏人

他们有他们对待别人的方式




自己的方式只是适合自己的

别勉强别人以同样方式对待你

你的真心,人家会感受到的

很难说如果别人刮了你一巴掌

他要刮你第二巴掌,也许还能忍耐

但第三巴掌,我可不担保我会继续站着给他刮

给与以前的我也许早已一拳挥回去

但现在我想...

我会离开现场

我只是一个血肉之躯

我不是神

有感觉、有感受

我不做伤害别人的事

但同时我不想让自己赤裸裸的被人伤害

我想也没那个必要




刺猬的脸也许也写着:不要来惹我!不然你会伤痕累累!
哈哈...

忘了吗?

刺猬还小的时候身上是没刺的

长大了...

因为要保护自己的缘故

所以才立起身上的刺以免被其他的动物欺负

我会学习着刺猬的态度

小心翼翼的攀爬着

寻找自己的道路

How to live a happy and rewarding life.

Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.


When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement, "My purpose is to... today".


Live with 2 E'S ... ENERGY, ENTHUSIASIM, EMPATHY, and the 3 F's... FAMILY, FAITH AND FRIENDS.


Spend more time with people over the age of 70 and the under the age of 6.


Dream more when you are awake.


Try to make at least 3 people smile each day.


Realize that life is a school, and you are here to learn, pass all your tests.Problems are simply part of curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.


smile and laugh more. It will keeps the energy vampires away.


Life isn't fair, but it's still good.


Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.


Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.


You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagreements.


Make peace with your past, so it won't mess up with your present.


Don't compare your life with others'. you have no idea what their journey is all about.


Burn the candles, use the nice sheets. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.


No one is in charge of your happiness except you.


Forgive everyone for everything.


What other people think of you is none of your business.


Time heals almost everything.Give time, time.


However good or bad a situation is, it will change.


Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.


No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.


Call your family often.


The best is yet to come.



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